As you all
know, Mr. O-P entered Hospice Care a while ago. I now have the sad task of
telling you that on Saturday evening, June 25th, he passed away. I
take solace in knowing that he was unaware that he wasn’t going to survive, and in the fact that I
was able to care for him here at home until he took his last breath.
We have a long
history together, beginning when I was his student in college, and then his
researcher, and eventually his wife. Marrying someone twenty years my senior
was a bold move, but one I will never regret because we had a marvelous time
together, working in some of the most beautiful libraries around the world, and
living in some truly amazing cities.
This is my favorite picture
of him. It was taken when we were working at Yale and living in North Haven, CT
in a house on 12 acres of land with four deer, dozens of turkeys, a resident
skunk, and Gothic tower, erected by an artist proficient in metal sculpture. I
miss him already.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. There are no words I can say except that you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss...sending comforting hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry. Hoping you find peace. You are loved.
ReplyDeleteI am so terribly sorry for your loss, Patti. My sweetie is 18 years my senior and I know that in the future there is a good possibility that I will be caring for him to some extent. I am glad to know you have no regrets, and that you had a good life together. Truly, I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteHugs from the mountain top - xoxo
My most sincere condolences to you at this time of sorrow.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI am so very, very sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories, and some day you will be able to look back without sorrow and just smile. But for now, I know how much pain is in your heart as we have traveled the same road.
ReplyDeleteWishing you peace and solace....
Thinking of you Big Time. And for some reason you have really been on my mind since Saturday. Now I know why.
ReplyDeleteHe is still with you only now with no pain or sickness. He will send you a sign that everything will be ok
Hugs to you....
I'm so sorry, Pattie :( Deepest Condolences! That is a great photo of him.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderful life together. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry to read of your loss. I remember well some of the stories you used to share on the BakeryShoppe list. Blessings to you!!
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteDear Pattie,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss, and hope your wonderful memories will help you through the days ahead-much love and many prayers-
Jenna
I am so very sorry for your loss of this special man. The two of you had a wonderful life together. I hope that your sorrow is tempered by your memories of those years. Please take care of yourself and give yourself plenty of time to grieve -- we will all be here for you when you are ready to return. (I too am married to a professor many years my senior, and have never had any regrets.)
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss. Sounds like you've had a wonderful life together. May your memories carry you through this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry to read of your loss, and I wish you courage and uplifting times in the future.
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I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of your lives together. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. He sounds like he was a wonderful husband.
ReplyDeleteTake care,
Oh, I am so sorry to learn of your husbands passing.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am sending my heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you in this difficult time. May God Bless. xx Karen
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers to you at this most difficult time, Pattie. Jim sounds like he was such a wonderful man. My heart aches for you.
ReplyDeleteThere's one more star up in the sky tonight.
Even though it is far away,
its brightness and warmth
still reach us here
to make the night a little less dark.
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteBig hugs Pattie. I'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteOh Pattie I'm so sorry. I have not been active on any blogs lately and hadn't seen your last few posts. We often don't really know what is going on with our blog friends, and your courageous spirit is very much admired by me and your many blog readers. I can't imagine how much you miss him. Keep up your strength and here's hoping you will get back to feeding yourself good food again. I am praying for you.
ReplyDeleteSorry to read this and may you be comforted in some way by the fact his love will always be there for you.
ReplyDeleteContinuing to think of you and send comforting mojo your way....
ReplyDeleteBless you Pattie, and I so admire your strength. I think of tablescaping as therapy too, it always calms me and takes away stress. Love and prayers-
ReplyDeleteJenna
So sorry to read of your great loss, Pattie.
ReplyDeleteOh Pattie...I'm so sorry to here about Mr. O-P. Your photo of his is wonderful. Thinking of you. ♥
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