This holiday season has been an unusual one for me. As
anyone who has experienced the loss of someone close knows, the first of every
holiday following this loss is a difficult one. In some ways, it's better,
because the stress and burden of care has been lifted. In other ways, it's
painfully sad, and I struggle for a new normal. I am treating myself well this
year, indulging myself more than I probably should, but I have been finding
much enjoyment in the peace and quiet and new traditions that I am beginning for
myself.
One of my coping mechanisms is to do everything different this year than I have
in the past. I live differently now than I used to, so decorating has changed
to fit my new lifestyle. One thing that I am particularly enjoying this year is
my coastal Christmas tree in the bedroom. Years ago when my boys were young, I
used to put up a Christmas tree in every room of the house. At that time we had
a nine-room house, so yes, that meant nine Christmas trees, 10 if you count the
small one in the powder room. This year I have but two, but am planning next
year's Christmas tree for my English hunt theme office. I already have a very
large collection of English hunt ornaments, and these ornaments deserve their
own tree.
But this year I'm relaxing and enjoying the sparkly coastal tree in the bedroom,
set on a timer so that I can fall asleep with the lights on, and enjoy the
beginning of what will become a new tradition.
With few exceptions, all of the ornaments on the tree come from Pier 1 (I told you
I indulged myself.). I found that the tree was lacking in a few areas, so I
grabbed the two bathing beauties that you first saw in this table setting, and
put them onto the tree. I think they look perfect here, and give the tree a bit
of whimsy.
I love the soft colors, they go very well with the bedroom, I'm getting
quite a kick out of the Adirondack chair ornaments with the wreaths, and am
enjoying the little bottle ornaments with the beach glass inside.
The burlap poinsettias are from purchases that I made last year, the starfish
interspersed around the tree have been in my beach collection for many years,
beginning back from my college days when I spent the summer in Florida taking a
geology class.
I hope you are enjoying the season as much as I find myself enjoying it. Take
time for yourself, relax, and enjoy, the New Year will be here before you know
it.
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